It’s ironic how we respond to change. We want change, yet we fear it. We crave change, then we claw at it.
We’d rather slip to the back of the line (of change) than butt our way to the front. We shrink, we hide, we duck.
Screw change. Let someone else do it.
So goes the sentiment of far too many people. There’s little chance of upside. If you stick your neck out, there’s risk; there’s no guarantee of reward. Failure is possible and humiliation is downright probable.
And this is how we end up swirling around in the toilet of mediocrity.
Moment of truth. Today I couldn’t bring myself to write about anything social, trending, controversial, educational or overly deep. So coffee in hand I let my thoughts tumble around, and they landed (bullseye) on something I’ve always wanted to do.
I’d be witty, honest, and bang-on with my answers. My sparkle would mesmerize the writer. In a flash, they decide to break tradition of using a caricature. The creative director would come careening into the room with an unexpected Annie Leibovitz in tow. My hair would have it’s best day EVER, and my skin would be clear and creamy — no Photoshop needed. The published piece would paradoxically leave me awed and humbled. My mother would wipe a proud tear from her crinkly eyes as she read my words.
Well, some dreams come true and others — ones like my tongue-in-cheek Vanity Fair fantasy — may forever be a fable. So what’s a creative girl to do when she still longs for some good Q&A? She whips up her very own questionnaire for all those people who — like her –don’t mind peeling back the layers and sharing who they are.
So here you have it. 10 very random questions I’d ask YOU if we had a sit-down to compare the minds and ways of being right-brainers.