Who are you?
“You are most like the five people you spend time with,” so goes the saying.
Sure, sure. It makes sense. We spend time with the people who make us feel good (the definition of good being a relative and deeply personal one). We hang with people who affirm what we know (or hope) is true.
I decided to name what makes my people so special. Not just special to me…I went bigger. How do the people I know make this sometimes-really-shitty-frustrating-and-imbalanced-planet a better place to live?
See for yourself.
I put those ass-kickin friends in this Wordle:
The answers humbled me. I pinched myself. I said “Self, do you even KNOW how blessed you are? Do you even GET that you run among remarkable people?” Yeah, I know. I really do know.
So, who are YOUR people?
Forget, for now, what it says about you. But who are they? Don’t stop with the five people closest to you; consider anyone who influences your life.
What is their mark on the world? What is the imprint they leave on you? If your experience is anything like mine, this is an exercise in extraordinary gratitude.
Dwarfed. And okay.
Funny thing is, I don’t see myself perfectly reflected among my friends. I see myself as a dwarf among giants. These people do, see, and say things I need three lifetimes to have the balls to do. What I do see, though, in every one of them is the person I hope to be.
And for now, I’m pretty okay with being a work in progress — and I’m banking on their goodness rubbing off on me.
Your turn ~ If you do this exercise, let me know. I’d love to see what you came up with.
P.S. If you aren’t familiar with Wordle, give it a whirl. It’s a simple, free word cloud creation site that allows you to form mini works of word art.